Anal sex toys are a fun way to explore an area rich in nerve endings for men and women. They are often made of soft silicone and are hypoallergenic, making them safe for beginners. Many come with a flared base for safety and can be used for thrusting or stationary pleasure.
Anal dildos
There are a wide variety of anal dildos available to suit different tastes. They come in many sizes, shapes, and designs and are suitable for both male and female anal penetration. They are usually made of non-porous, body-safe materials that can be cleaned easily with water and lubricant.
The first thing to consider when choosing an anal dildo is its base. Regular dildos designed for the vagina tend to be straight and narrow, which can cause them to get stuck inside the butt. This can be uncomfortable and even dangerous.
To avoid this, choose a flared anal toy with a tapered tip for easier insertion. You should also make sure to use plenty of lube to reduce friction. Once you’re comfortable with the toy, try varying your speed and depth of penetration. For beginners, it’s a good idea to start slow and work up to more enthusiastic penetration. The anal area contains ample nerve endings that stimulate and heighten sexual arousal.
Butt plugs
Butt plugs are a great way to spice up anal play. They can be used for anal training, assplay, or just to add a new sensation during sex. However, they are best used when the user is relaxed and ready for anal stimulation. Foreplay, a warm bath, or a gentle massage can help get the anal ready for fun.
The anus is not self-lubricating, so it’s important to use a high-quality lube when inserting a butt plug. Choose a lube that is compatible with the material of the toy (avoid silicone if using with a silicone anal plug) and reapply regularly as needed.
For beginners, it’s a good idea to start small with a slim plug and work your way up. The Lovehoney Butt Tingler is an excellent choice, with a girth that’s not too big and a flared base for safety. It also comes in vibrator mode for extra excitement. And, best of all, it’s made with safe, body-safe materials.
Anal beads
Many anal sex toys have multiple sensation settings that can be controlled via the toy’s wireless remote. For instance, B-Vibe’s Triplet Plug has six speeds and 15 patterns of vibration to stimulate the pleasure receptors in your anal canal. These toys can be used alone or with a partner. If you’re unsure how to use them, try incorporating them into your masturbation sessions and see how the experience feels for you.
While you may be tempted to insert all the beads at once, the real fun of anal beads comes from movement. Instead, let your partner spread their cheeks (doggy style) and reach for the beads, which will allow them to wiggle and feel their way around.
Before attempting to insert anal beads, be sure to apply plenty of lube to the base and inner lips. A water-based lube is best, as silicone-based lubes can break down the material of some anal sex toys. Then, lie back and relax as you insert the first bead.
Prostate massagers
Once the sex toy market realized that men were interested in prostate pleasure, they went all out with a wide array of prostate massagers. These toys range from tiny to enormous and feature a variety of functions. Many prostate massagers are remote control, and some have a rotating head or an internal vibrator that stimulates multiple anal zones.
The prostate (or p-spot) is the sensitive gland located on the front of your pelvis, between your bladder and penis. It’s the size of a walnut in most men, though some have enlarged prostates that grow to the size of a plum as they get older. Stimulating the prostate can lead to mind-blowing orgasms and intense pleasure.
When using a prostate massager, make sure it’s properly lubricated and that you or your partner are relaxed. Starting with a well-lubricated finger and then slowly inserting the toy can help you find the right spot. Deep, rhythmic breathing can also help you relax and makes it easier to insert a finger or prostate massager.